Wednesday, 5 August 2009

Rejection

How many times does a person have to be rejected until they can finally realised they're not wanted? Is it all down to the mind not wanting to accept the truth of another man's wishes? Even when a person spells the message out, will we accept their choice? Rejection is something no-one wants to feel, especially not in love. The feeling of being unwanted is hard to deal with and a very hurtful emotion. Being rejected from something that you feel passionately about, is the worst form. When having a passion on a person or object to be feel pushed away from that desire, can destroy a person's feelings. How do we cope with such feeling? Most people cry or curl up into a ball when feeling pushed out. Nothing more than being in the centre of something you enjoy is worse when pushed away from such story. As humans we all deal with rejection in different ways. Our way of showing who we are and what we feel change dramatically after the feeling of not being wanted at such event. A heart can feel withdrawn from life and feel automatic upset towards anything that could bring back memories of our desire for such attention. Making no sense can also be a way of showing how someone feels, emotions run wild when feeling unwanted. As if there's no point? Fight as if everything's perfect, but in reality it hurts, deep down. Rejection cuts deep into the mind and heart, it makes a person panic to find a purpose to feel wanted and reach out for something that will change that feeling.Once in a lifetime, we all get let down, mostly from the people we have such high hopes for. Now you may think 'i don't expect nothing from anyone' but we do, we expect our friends to be there the second we need them, our parents to be there and support us through everything, we expect the sky to be there when we wake up, we expect to still have 10 fingers and 10 toes, not our fault, but we live in a materialistic world, where we expect. The ones we expect to be there and do what they do best, help you, and the moment they aren't, is the moment you doubt, everything, everyone. So that leaves the question of; is there anyone we can rely on? apart from yourself - even then if you think hard enough, can you truly trust yourself? trust yourself to do what's right, for you, for others?